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[alexmegami]

Balance comes easily for some, and others need help along the way. My question is - where does the help end? When does the off-balanced person become needy and grasping? Where do you pull away, and make them fend for themselves? And when is the point where you know you've done the right thing?

One off-balance person can send even the most perfect person reeling.

Two centered people can reinforce each other.

Centered people tend to find other centered people. Sometimes, though, an off-kilter one will yank the carpet out from underneath a centered one, sending them swaying.

Which are you? Which are your friends?

I feel pretty centered, myself.

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[quatch.livejournal.com]

I think it depends on both the issues and people involved. I think I'm pretty stable, but certain things can ruin that quick.

Can't ever make something black and white eh?

[alexmegami]

True enough. But generally, left to your own devices, you're either strongly one way or strongly another, I think.

(For example, a drama queen, even with NO ONE AROUND TO VIEW HER DRAMA, will have histrionics over the smallest thing.)

I'm used to shades of grey, so don't worry about it ^^

[safti]

[I've been called a drama queen. Several times, actually. I'm not a classical one, I don't think, because I hide a lot of stuff from a lot of people, whereas I think some would use it to get attention.]

I think, all in all, I'm pretty balanced. But I have some things that can definitely make me off-kilter. My friends keep me balanced. ^_^ Most of them are, too, quite. Generally.

[achpsident.livejournal.com]

I'd say I'm pretty centered, with occasional lapses.

Hmm:

[mysticjuicer.livejournal.com]

I'll answer this when I'm feeling healthier. Try to remind me to remind myself. Peace.