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Jun. 7th, 2005 01:39 amDear Mom:
No, I don't think you need to have sex to have a sexuality. No, I don't think that having crushes on your female friends in high school is (necessarily) the same thing as being gay. I think that there's a huge step between admiration of a person and, say, masturbating to mental images of them at night.
I did not say this because it only could have come off as snarky or bitchy.
I will, however, eventually brave the question "is it wrong to tell Katie that I'M bisexual? Because I am, and I've known that since I was twelve."
You know, telling Daddy wasn't this stressful.
Telling my friends wasn't this stressful.
Telling Katie was a little stressful, but not this stressful.
In fact, I'd have to say, of all the people that I'm scared to tell, YOU top the list.
Do you think there is a problem here? I do.
No love because you're giving me an ulcer,
Alex
No, I don't think you need to have sex to have a sexuality. No, I don't think that having crushes on your female friends in high school is (necessarily) the same thing as being gay. I think that there's a huge step between admiration of a person and, say, masturbating to mental images of them at night.
I did not say this because it only could have come off as snarky or bitchy.
I will, however, eventually brave the question "is it wrong to tell Katie that I'M bisexual? Because I am, and I've known that since I was twelve."
You know, telling Daddy wasn't this stressful.
Telling my friends wasn't this stressful.
Telling Katie was a little stressful, but not this stressful.
In fact, I'd have to say, of all the people that I'm scared to tell, YOU top the list.
Do you think there is a problem here? I do.
No love because you're giving me an ulcer,
Alex